instructional step by step pictorial guide to
performing anal massage. You will need a water based jelly lubricant (
Astroglide for example) and a latex glove. It is not recommended not to use
lubricants with "de-sensitizing" properties. The receiver should strive to be
impeccably clean, using an anal douche prior to the massage.
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A. Begin the sacred-spot
and/or anal massage with a gentle, playful touch; allowing the giver the
opportunity to both excite and relax what may be an apprehensive and
tense receiver. The giver should resist the temptation of "entering" the
receiver at this time!
B. The giver now slips on
a form fitting latex glove.
C. The giver applies a
very liberal amount of quality lubrication to the "finger", as well as
to anal opening ["rosebud"]. Making sure that the lubricant is at least
room temperature or warmer. Never apply "hot" or "cold"
D. The giver will now
begin the massage by gently, yet firmly pressing the desired finger
against the "rosebud". It is essential that the giver never prod
excessively, but rather allow the receiver to become comfortable with
the giver's finger. By exerting gentle and steady pressure, the giver
will find that the receiver's anus will gradually begin to relax and
eventually "draw in" the well lubricated finger.
The giver can now begin the massage in earnest,
remembering not to withdraw the finger entirely. The receiver may desire
to accept more than a single finger, but this may require more time and
practice between the giver and receiver.