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Cunnilingus: Oral stimulation of the yoni, or simply "Oral".

Any woman can be intensely aroused and easily brought to climax through proper oral stimulation. The combination of the "giver's" tongue and receiver's clitoris brings two diverse anatomic areas with incredible sensitivity. Both the the clitoris and tongue contain thousands of nerve receptors. We are all aware of how sensitive our tongue is, particularly the tip. Most certainly the tongue is significantly more sensitive than the finger tip.

The fact is that there is no other human appendage or mechanical device more capable of pleasuring the clitoris than the tongue. For this reason most givers are capable of providing at least a basic form of pleasure to the female when performing oral sex. The problem is that the resulting  level of pleasure often falls far short of it's absolute potential.

Let us examine a few of the basic issues which may impede or undermine this potential, bearing in mind that it is not our objective to offend anyone, but simply to outline our viewpoint. We are fully aware that our view will not be agreeable to everyone.

Preparation

A woman should thoroughly cleanse (douche) her vagina prior to engaging in oral. Although there will be a great deal of argument about this point, the fact remains that the natural scent of the vagina may not be pleasant. To take the position that "natural" is always best is ignoring reality. Any form of body odor, caused by perspiration is usually offensive. Why should the vagina be different than the underarm for example?

Although not as essential as douching, a woman should seriously consider grooming her pubic area. An overly hairy genital area is not going to be particularly enticing to her partner. Again, there will be arguments in support of "naturalness", the inconvenience of shaving and ongoing stubble maintenance issues. However if the woman is very hairy, realize that this is not necessarily conducive to oral. No doubt there are always exceptions. There are always givers who find an abundance of pubic hair to be particularly appealing.

Arousal

A distinct advantage of oral is that the woman need not produce natural lubricant immediately. All the lubrication required is easily provided be the giver's saliva. For many men oral means an "all out assault" tongue on the vaginal area with their mouth. There is often no subtlety, no attempt to stimulate the individual components within this magic zone. Yet even an indiscriminate licking and sucking provides pleasure.

 

A better way

For those who seek to provide their partner with a higher degree of oral pleasure the following should be considered.

Every yoni is unique - Although women will generally respond positively to all forms of oral stimulation, there are individual likes and dislikes which need to be considered. Beginning with the particular areas that may be stimulated. By far the most sensitive of these is the clitoris or "clit". When un-aroused, the clitoris is sheltered beneath the clitoral hood. The clit only appears after arousal. Although the external (visible) element of the clitoris is often quite small, the internal portion is extensive. The exposed clit is some ways similar to the head of the male penis, only far more sensitive.

The giver must first relax the partner's yoni. A good method of beginning the relaxation process is by kissing the clitoral hood and along the labial folds. Lick along the edges of the labial folds, but do not push your tongue into the vaginal opening.  Pull on the labial lips by grasping them with your lips. Pull, then release the right and left lip repeatedly.

As the women begins to relax she will gradually become aroused. Her arousal will increase in a gradual manner and it's essential understand and note what is most pleasurable for her. Every woman does not respond equally to the same stimulation. Finding out what pleases her will be a matter of trial and error. Her body language will serve as a guide to understanding what she most desires, but if in doubt to sure to also communicate verbally with your partner.

It's important to remember that the woman may prefer "sucking" over "licking". While others like to be  "nibbled". Some women prefer direct licking of the surface of clitoris, while others may find the stimulation too intense. Many women are particularly fond of simultaneous oral and G-spot massage (by finger).

Accessing the crown jewel: the clitoris. After sufficient stimulation the clitoris will become enlarged and erect in a similar to the male's penis. Since most of clitoris is hidden inside the body one cannot see the full effect of the erection in most women. However it's possible to kiss, lick or suck the head of the clitoris.

Providing one's partner with oral sex should be mutually enjoyed, not only by the receiver but by the giver. The giver will find great satisfaction in providing incredible pleasure, but also gaining the unique ability of tuning into the female's most private erogenous zone.  It's extremely important that the giver not rush through the process and overwhelm the yoni's pleasure receptors. The giver should always proceed in a deliberate, step-by-step manner which will allow the female to enjoy every individual sensation to its maximum level.