is ejaculation control for men so important?
Once a man has
reached the point in his sexual development where he begins to understand that
just "getting off" isn't satisfying him or his partner, he craves for more.
Which is a natural desire. And in his heart he knows there is more, but often
doesn't know how to achieve these higher pleasures. Tantra teaches us that for a man
to achieve the highest Ecstasy possible for himself and his lover, he first needs to
learn ejaculation control and to direct his sexual energy up his spine to the
higher centers of his brain. In Tantra this sexual energy is known as "kundalini"
When a man masters the ability to move his Kundalini energy up
along his spine, he increases the pleasure for himself and his lover to levels
that he might never have
dreamt of. As a man learns to master the movement his Sexual Energy within his
body, he will be able to control his ejaculation. At this point he is free to make
love "without" feeling the pressure to ejaculate.
A man's sensitivity and awareness is
profoundly heightened to the subtle and refined pleasures of lovemaking. He
steps into an expanded state of consciousness, which allows him to achieve
"multiple" and "full-body orgasms". The benefits of "full-body" orgasm are many.
Full-body orgasm frees him from stress and tensions, heals his prostate gland,
opens his heart and connects him deeper to his lover and himself. It also
facilitates the man in experiencing multiple orgasms. By "multiple"
is not to imply "multiple ejaculations", but rather that once a man learns to move his Kundalini
energy through his body he can have orgasms and not ejaculate. This is known as
"dry orgasm" or none-ejaculatory orgasm.
Men have a tremendous capacity for pleasure and orgasm
that is virtually untouched for most men. As a man masters tantric practice and
higher energy movement, he begins to view his Lingam (penis) as an instrument of
a deeper love connection with the woman. This deeper connection facilitates
moving the woman to the highest states of Ecstasy and orgasmic pleasure that she
can achieve. Allowing the man and woman to continue to build higher levels of