Ejaculation reflex sensation
matter which method is used it is not possible to touch the prostate
directly. The nearest indirect access is through the rectal wall, which
means that there is still a membrane in the way. This is somewhat akin to
the inhibiting sensitivity a glove. Despite this restriction the lobes of
the prostrate are highly sensitive to pressure. An array of sensations may
be produced by pressing, rubbing or by means of stroking the gland through
the rectal wall. The most profound of these feelings is similar to that
which is normally felt during ejaculation, as the prostate begins pumping
with the genital areas, the anus is connected to and interwoven with
millions of delicately sensitive nerve endings, which can yield most
Unknown to most, over one third of the penis is buried inside the body. It
is the base of the (hidden) penis which may be pressured in a similar manner
as the prostate. The effect of stimulating all three can be awesome, if done
in concert with genital stimulation. Still more overwhelming than the
physiological effects is the psychological aspect of prostate massage, due
to the unaccustomed nature of penetration of the receiver.
As powerful as physiological stimulation might be, it pales when compared to
the immeasurably greater psychological or mental high. The very notion of
the male placing himself into such a vulnerable position, results in a
powerful mental rush, for both receiver as well giver. The willingness of
the naturally controlling male to allow himself to placed in an unaccustomed
submissive role, should be particularly cherished by the giver.
Face to face (for greater
completely undressing the receiver should assume a seated position;
his back reclined and supported by large firm pillows (at about a 45 - 65 degree
angle). His knees pulled in the direction of his chest and somewhat
angled outward. The resulting position should be both comfortable for the
receiver, as well as allowing the giver unobstructed view and unfettered
access to the anus and genitals of the receiver. The giver may
sit cross legged, or kneel in front of the receiver.
As a way to relax the receiver, the giver may begin by
massaging the receivers lower extremities, particularly the abdomen. Initially, the
receiver may choose to relax by closing his eyes, but as the massage progresses it is of great importance that
the receiver and giver maintain eye contact.
will be up to the giver to decide when the receiver is
sufficiently relaxed and aroused. At this time the giver should unobtrusively
slip on a glove and to begin lubricating the receivers anus. The
lubrication process should be lengthy and ceremonial. Beginning with
circular motions, stroking the anal opening. The objective is to
pleasure and relax the nervous rosebud.
The giver should "never" poke the anus with the tip of the finger,
but to gently and firmly apply pressure with the pad of the finger.
Continuously add lubrication; there can never be too much lubrication! When
the anus is ready it will allow the finger to enter. All that is needed is
time and patience.
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Remarkably, when the moment comes the giver will notice that the
finger will seem to be drawn into the anus. Once the finger has been allowed
to enter it is best to be still allowing the anal sphincters the
chance to become accustomed to the intrusion. It will not be a good idea for
the giver to move their finger in and out of the anus. There should only be
one reason for the giver to remove the finger, and this would be to
add more lubrication.
The giver is now ready to seek out the prostate: this can easily
accomplished by crooking the inserted finger upwards, and feeling for a
"roundish" to oblong protrusion about 2 inches inside the rectum. Applying
pressure to the prostate will provide a variety of sensations, the most
desirable of which is the feeling of impending ejaculation. By applying more
or less pressure to the gland, the giver will be able to control
these sensations; even to the point of inhibiting the receiver from
ejaculating. The ability to control ejaculation through prostate massage,
allows for nearly unending stimulation of the receiver's genitals.
The penis may be massaged by the giver, or by receiver
himself, to a point of near ejaculation. Only to be kept on the brink by
varying pressure on the prostate.
During the arousal cycle the giver may begin to rhythmically move the
inserted finger partially in and out, so as to stimulate the rich and super
sensitive nerve endings around the anus.
Eye contact is most desirable at the resolution phase of the experience,
with the receiver and giver gazing into one another's eyes…
various scenarios are now possible:
A. The giver
will allow the receiver to masturbate himself to achieve
ejaculating. All the while the giver will be verbally encouraging
the receiver to the moment of climax.
B. The giver
may masturbate the receiver's penis with one hand, while massaging
the receivers anal opening or prostate with the other. Both giver
and receiver should communicate intently, so as to allow the
greatest pleasure for the receiver.
C. The receiver
may desire for the giver to “milk” his prostate, without direct
stimulation to the penis. To achieve this the giver will gently
stroke each lobe, resulting in a gentle flow of semen and the emptying of
the prostate through the erect or flaccid penis.
Facing "away" from the giver
(a magnificent view for the giver)
In this position the receiver will be kneeling, knees apart,
buttocks elevated, while the elbows are resting on a firm surface, such as a
cushioned floor matt. This should be both a stable and comfortable position
for the receiver.
The giver may kneel or sit spread legged behind the receiver,
having easy access and a perfect view, of the receiver's anus. The
giver will also be in a position to reach between the receivers legs to
allow stimulation of the genitals.
this point please follow the same procedure as in the face to face method.