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From: sweetandstrongman@hotmail.com
T1: male
Date: 12 Jun 2008
Time: 19:49:39 -0400
Remote Name: 68.4.132.128
The kegels you're doing seem reasonable to build strength. For me the doorway to multiple orgasm opens when very relaxed yet energetic i.e. aroused but not driving to completion. It's a bit of a mindset, so a couple seconds before going over the edge I can stop stimulation, breath the energy away from genitals throughout my body, feel this shivers building up my spine and radiating outward, taking the focus off the genitals and into the brain and everywhere else. Then redirecting energy to lingam to rebuild excitement. Strength of PC muscle helps you hold back from the edge so you can breathe the energy away and enjoy the orgasm. Stronger muscle, closer to the edge you can reliably take yourself. Enjoy the ride, remember if you're goal-directed the goal eludes you all the more...life's like thatI find.